HOUSTON--“I came on a field trip from
my school to the United States, but I knew I was not going back
to Guatemala”, confessed Flor Miramontes about her arrival
to the United States.
Her story began when she was a child in Guatemala dreaming of a
better life for herself. She had heard of the many ways people crossed
the border into the “land of dreams” but she was too
young to make the long journey, so she waited.
She turned 14 and felt it was time to leave the extreme poverty
and search for a better life.
It was in that school field trip when she says her life began. She
took the journey by bus through Mexico and finally to Houston. With
nothing but $60 in her pocket, Flor was scared, but she knew she
had to pursue her lifelong dream. “When everyone was visiting
Houston, I discretely walked away from the group and began my odyssey”.
“I tried to find work, but being illegal closed a lot of doors
for me”, she admitted with a slight smile on her face.
After sleeping on the streets and finding shelters for food, Flor
met a handsome but much older Hispanic man “Mario” at
a restaurant. He was in this country with legal residency and when
he laid eyes on Flor he was instantly attracted to the thin curly
haired teenager. Flor believed this man was put in her path to save
her so they immediately got married and started a family. At 14
and in a new country, she felt content, at least for the time being,
but in the back of her heart she felt she was here to do a lot more
with her life.
Mario became an alcoholic almost right after they got married. “I
was taught to deal with it and keep my family together, so I didn’t
say anything to him, I didn’t want him to get upset with me”,
she remembers. Two years later, his alcoholism led to spousal abuse.
“I was too afraid to leave, and again I tried to make my marriage
work”.
Two years and two beautiful little girls later Mario packed his
belongings and left. Flor didn’t know what to do with her
life; she was scared, and fell into a depression. It was then that
she started wondering what she could do with her life. She remembers
having helped her husband with the air-conditioning installation
jobs and thought she could find a career doing that. When she was
about to enroll in school a few months later, Mario returned home
and made promises that Flor believed strongly he would keep, so
she welcomed him back and again put her own life aside.
A year later those promises had not been kept and his drinking got
even worse… It was then that Flor decided to kick him out
of the house and into his lover’s apartment. Without thinking
twice, the next day, she enrolled in Houston Community College Southwest
for their bilingual Air Conditioning classes.
She worked during the day doing cleaning at construction sites,
and at night rushed to school for a four hour course. Exhausted
and feeling lonely, Flor remembers her tiring mornings and her little
quality time left for her daughters. She struggled and continued
until she finished the course.
She felt like she could take on the world now, the air conditioning
world that is. With the little money she saved up, she started her
own business. She bought and outfitted two vans and named them Flor
I and Flor II. She rents out Flor II, and uses Flor I to do her
own jobs.
She can now install and repair air conditioners for homes and small
businesses. Even though her ex-husband has tried to come back into
her life, Flor has remained strong and knows she’s better
off without the headaches.
“I knew that God had something special for me, I didn’t
want to be depressed anymore I wanted to move on and finally be
happy” she sighs.
Now, at the age of 28, Flor owns her own air-conditioning business,
a farm, three vehicles, and has two daughters Leslie and Sally.
She’s proud and quick to tell people she works in a male-dominated
business.
“My proudest moment now is when construction workers or managers
ask me for my boss, and I can respond, “I am my boss”,
she says with her head held high. “My daughters have named
me the A/C girl and now the men I come across at job sites know
me as the A/C girl, and look at me with admiration” she says
with a big smile.
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